Developing an Overflow Mentality

Why it’s important to have an overflow mentality?

It is because whatever you think most of the time, whatever you focuses on, whatever you set your mind to, eventually becomes your reality.

Do you notice in yourself that your thoughts affect the way you see things? Direct how you should feel? Influence the words that come out from your mouth? Then lead to your actions? Before you know it, these repeated actions become a habit. A pattern that transform to certain behavior. Then there is your character and destiny.

The moment you discern that your calling is either a vow of poverty or a vow of generosity, set your mind to your choice and work (the action part) all the best you can to achieve your purpose in life.

The path I’m recommending is the vow of generosity because, I believe, there is lesser problem and stress with having more money than having no money.

There’s better chance doing more good things by having more money than less money. Lesser resources limits your ability to act boldly in blessing other people through you. Don’t you think so?

Yesterday, as I was walking towards home, I shook my head in sadness as two women were talking.

Woman: Ibebenta ko ang sapatos ko. (I’m selling my shoes).
Older woman: Bakit? (Why?)
Woman: Wala kaming pangkain, natalo sa bingo eh. Ayoko na talaga! (We’ve got nothing to eat. I gambled the money and lost. I’m stopping already!)

I hope that woman stay true to her decision to stop gambling any money for basic necessities. I’m sure there are other issues causing her state of poverty as they’re among those who take shelter in the sidewalk. But one reason, I believe, is this: that woman has never considered the overflow/abundance mindset. If she continue thinking poor because that’s how she looks at her condition, she’ll never consider the possibility of rising up from that disappointing situation to claim her more-than-enough potential.

I encourage you to listen to this material below from Joel Osteen. Some people hate him and accuse him false prophet for his motivational style of preaching the Gospel of Christ. But I don’t care much about the messenger (Joel is a Protestant and I’m Catholic) for as long as the “message” leads me towards living the fruit of the spirit such as: pag-ibig/love, kagalakan/joy, kapayapaan/peace, pagtitiis/patience, kabutihan/kindness, kagandahang-loob/goodness, katapatan/faithfulness, kahinahunan/humility, pagpipigil sa sarili/self-control).

There’s more to gain listening to the guy rather than listening to those who say negative things about him with the invitation that I condemn the guy. I can’t seem to locate where this (condemning the guy encouragement) should fit in the list of “fruits” above. On judgement day, we will all face the true and rightful judge. I’ll let Him do that.

[Watch/Listen: Develop an overflow mentality by Joel Osteen (YouTube)]

PS. If you want to immerse yourself in a life-changing kind of thinking, you may join our community where you can gain an overflow in all areas of your life.

Attribution: video/audio from YouTube; images from constantcontact.com and pinterest.com

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Manual

Any creation is always accompanied by a manual. 

A car has a manual so that when it malfunctions, the repair technician will know how to fix the trouble. The manual also teaches how to maintain the car to keep it in good running condition so it can get you to places especially your desired destination. 

Your cellphone has a manual, too! It gives the assurance you can know its proper use, its features and continue enjoying them using the internet,  as from time to time, your cellphone hangs and encounters all sorts of unexpected problems. 

Do you know that your life has a manual, too? Like a car or a cellphone, you are a creation – with a purpose, too! Sometimes it’s difficult to know it; and it may take a while to know what your purpose is for being here. But  I AM SURE that you are intended to be uselful. What are cars and/or cellphones, that are all over the place wherever you look, if they’re of no use? 

Know this. Just keep on looking until you find your usefulness! When problems come your way, you may feel broken and destroyed but you can be repaired. Thanks to your (repair) manual! Your life manual has also sufficient instructions how you can maintain a good & meaningful life. 

And yes, including how to create & maintain good finances – example of this is the 7.5 Million goal of each of you that’s coming your way in few years! Thanks to the guidance of an awesome community!

That’s why, financial or otherwise,  you always hear me tell you that you can live and enjoy a fantastic life to the full! Check your manual, that promise is there!

Just keep reading it everyday of your life not only during the mass or religion classes – even if you don’t feel like reading it at times. 

Oh, well. Thankfully, you can also watch its movie adaptation I recently discovered (see below).

Tell you something. Daddy is convinced that your (life/repair) manual is the best source of financial wisdom! It is popularly called as …

 
The Bible 1:

 
The Bible 2:

 
The Bible 3:

 
The Bible 4:

 
Attribution: Image from haynes.com; Gospel of Jesus facebook page for the videos.

Postscript: You may join.our community if you think your financial life is a mess right now. And change your life for the better! Know more about it, here!

Give all your money to the poor. Will you follow?

Others may feel differently. But for someone studying personal finance & investing like me who also would like to transfer the right knowledge and values to #2daughters, I find the story of the the rich man who consulted the Savior, very disturbing! It’s as if I’m in a dead-end, staring at a brick wall seeing some writing on the wall (like the image above). It seemed like all stuff I am discovering up to now will eventually end up useless!

What?! Sell my possessions and give the money to the poor?! Perhaps everyone, whether rich or poor at this very moment, will do the exact same thing the rich man did. He went away, was sad and grieved for he had great possessions. Honestly? I think even the poor would do that. 

I do. I don’t have great possessions yet. And with very little resources, I would question, why should I give to others when what I have is not even enough for me? I can not give what I don’t have! Hello?! In case I sell whatever I have, I’d rather use the proceeds which will definitely be insufficient still. Ako muna bago sila! (Me first before them!). Isn’t that how people, by nature, misbehave? 

Thankfully, I found this sensible note I can agree with. It reads:

“What does your money mean to you? Although Jesus wanted this man to sell everything and give his money to the poor, this does not mean that all believers should sell all their possessions. Most of his followers did not sell everything, although they used their possessions to serve others. Instead, this story shows us that we must not let anything we have or desire keep us from following Jesus. We must remove all barriers to serving him fully. If Jesus asked, could you give up your house? Your car? Your level of income? Your position on the ladder of promotion? Your reaction may show your attitude toward money-whether it is your servant or your master.”

(Above commentary is from the Life Application Study Bible, page 1436; published by Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.)

Therefore, having possessions and having the money or the lack of them is not the issue. Being rich or poor is not the issue. My attitude is the issue. Your attitude is the issue. No matter which strata you are in, in this society and generation, right now, while you’re reading up to this paragraph. 

This, I think, is the reason why there’s a saying “money is the acid-test of character” (credit to whoever said that). I once heard Francis Kong in a TV interview said that “money problem is an attitude problem.” Often because people misplace money in their lives. Money should always be a servant, and never a master, of our lives. May God help me to always keep that top-of-the-mind awareness.

Postscript 1/2: You can read the whole story of this rich man who was so attached to his great possessions in the link below:

Looking at the man, Jesus felt genuine love for him. “There is still one thing you haven’t done,” he told him. “Go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
Mark 10:21 NLT (http://bible.com/116/mrk.10.21.NLT )

PostScript 2/2: Incidentally, I am part of a community that teaches that the ultimate purpose of wealth/money is to love and serve others. See for yourself if you fit, click this now!

Earthquakes can’t stop me!

I’ve had countless near-death experiences in my life.
During elementary years,  I almost drowned in a rangas (river) for not heeding to my parent’s advice not to bathe there because I didn’t know how to swim. Thanks to a friend who lifted me up for some oxygen.

Thus, in college, I took swimming lessons for my PE subjects. But I almost drowned again some years back during a company outing in Batangas due to my arrogance that I knew how to swim I could go near the floating boundary. I panicked I could no longer touch the sand. But images of #2daughters flashed before my eyes. It was such an inspiration that despite exhaustion I was able to swim back to the shore.

I learned very important lessons I carry to this day. That both ignorance and arrogance can kill you! With investing, I find these very valuable.

The most recent was yesterday. I was giving my all finishing my work to rush for an Aunt’s birthday to reunite with 2daughters but something shook my world.  Continue reading